figuring things out

So they say the key to happiness is simple. I'm still trying to find that key because apparently I'm stuck in difficult.  There are many departments in life. Well my life...  I am a daughter, a single mother to a wonderful six year old girl, a college student, I was working full-time till I was recently laid-off, so now unemployed :(, a friend to less than a handful of wonderful women, and lastly a girlfriend. Yes, I am 25 years old and I am NOT married. Yes I have a man in my life, hard working and tries his hardest to provide for the three of us, but we have yet to decide whether we are going to spend the rest of our lives together. There are many things in MY life I have yet to figure out! Time to get to work and figure out how to get my hands on the key to happiness! Sometimes I wish I could just draw or write out a plan on how I think and would like my life to be, tricky part is actually following that plan.